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There Is Another Way

Discovery Sessions Mentoring

  

No one can really develop as a person until they are crystal clear about who they are and what makes them tick. 


Whether you are aware of it or not, you have an inner roadmap that is based on the values that you have accepted as true for you. You need to understand with absolute clarity what those values are, where they came from, and what your commitment to them is. Every action that you make in your life, consciously or unconsciously is guided by those values.  

I invite you to become relentless in your pursuit of knowing what those values are and how to craft a life that reflects the values that you actually want to live by, not ones that you inherited. 


“People settle for a level of despair that they can tolerate and call it happiness.” 

Søren Kierkegaard 


There is a place beyond your mind, beyond your beliefs and beyond what you think is possible where you can live a life of real power and possibility. Our trauma, wounds and shadow are not something that we should try to get rid of, as they are the source energy for us to actually be regenerative in how we live our lives. They are the “minerals” for the soil of our life that gives us the capacity to grow as a human being. 

You are not broken. You are not ‘less than’. 


Don’t you want to see how powerfully unique and unlimited you are?


Our work together will help you identify and stand in your truth, power and agency with feet firmly on the ground, head up, eyes clear looking towards your future and walking with firm sure steps.  In our work you will find:


· You have the courage and strength to continually keep discovering who you really are 


· Be relentless in your commitment to your values and how you show up in your life 


· You will become committed to getting on the field and playing full out in the game called life- not being the person sitting up in the bleachers bitching and moaning about how things aren’t going your way. 

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To find out if this work is right for you, please schedule a free call with me. Click the link below to find out!

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Mentoring

One on One Mentoring

Working together we will find your true source of connection, and the pathway to answers you've been asking your whole life

  

You’ve always known that you were a little different. You always saw the world in a bit of a different color than others. Maybe you were called the black sheep of the family.
 

Somehow the sunrise affected you differently than others, or a song or poem or prayer brought you to tears in a way you can’t explain. 

 

You’ve worked hard to try and integrate this deep sense of spiritual connection to the world into your life, but mostly that connection doesn’t fit into our modern world. You end up burying it in favor of focusing on career, family, money and jobs. 

 

But it haunts you in your dreams, and those moments of self-sabotage when things seem like they are going well and lining up, but then everything crashes around you.
 

There is a way to learn the language of that feeling of connection to nature, to spirit, to others. A way to begin to harness that power and align it with your life purpose and path. 

 

If you can relate to this, then read on!
 

Maybe some of the below scenarios are true for you:
 

  • You work, come home, tend family, check all the boxes of a “good life,” but for the life of you, you cannot muster one iota of gratitude for what you have. If you really check in, you may be productive, but below all that there is a low grade feeling of anger, resentment, frustration and perhaps betrayal. Things are fucked up and once again you have to deal with the consequences.
     
  • You’ve grown so much in your life but you feel stuck, like there is a ceiling      above you that somehow you just can’t break through. 

 

  • You are fed up with the way your life is. Nothing you do works anymore, and you’re paralyzed by fear and uncertainty.
     
  • You crave a sign – anything – telling you what you should be doing to find      meaning and peace in your life.
     
  • You feel like there is so much more that you were born to do. You have so much      potential that you just can’t seem to tap into. 

 

  • You  feel like the world is coming apart. 


  • Life is totally out of control.
     
  • You  feel like you’ve abandoned life, or life has abandoned you.
     
  • You still feel stuck in old wounds, old thoughts, and old patterns.
     
  • Maybe  you even still like your job, but life has become boring and brings      nothing alive in you anymore. 

 

  • Every night you go to bed with a fantasy of living another life, somewhere      magical and pure that you were sure you were born to live in. 

 

  • You’ve  felt that the family you came from or the one you’re in now is somehow a      cosmic mistake and if you could just find that secret doorway you could get back to the people who you know are waiting for you. 

 

You’ve already tried so many things, such as: 


  • Meditation      
  • Therapy      
  • Books, journaling, online classes, seminars 
  • Mushrooms, ayahuasca or other ethnogenics
  • Yoga 

 

You’re not alone! I get it.
 

I spent the first 30 years of my life feeling like that. It was fucking hard. I let myself be controlled, manipulated and marginalized, and in turn, I did my own controlling, manipulating and marginalizing. 

 

We all want more connection and belonging. We steep daily in all sorts of societal messages that inform us about what we are supposed to be doing. 

 

And then we get to a point in our lives, where these societal messages don’t mean anything anymore. 

 

We are lost. We need meaning. We need to believe there is something in our lives that actually gives us purpose and passion. It’s so easy to get caught in the whirlwind of our day-to-day lives: work, family, bills, making money. 

 

There is a way through this. 

 

If you can relate to some of the things written above, I’m pretty sure that underneath that discontent you have a powerful spiritual longing. 

 

You are ready for a shift in the core of your being, but you don’t know what it is or how to access it. 

 

To be different, to feel different, to act different means you have to change. 

 

Change doesn’t have to be daunting; it doesn’t have to hurt all the time. 

 

There are simple steps you can take to find relief from the feeling of not belonging, not remembering why you are in relationship with your partner, to really find lasting joy in your life and more meaning than you ever thought possible. This is where I can help. Having a mentor or guide through this process will speed up and help illuminate the blocks you are feeling and facilitate your breakthroughs. 


Doing this mentoring work with me will help you:  

  • Redefine your relationship to yourself that puts you in charge of your growth. You are the one who can see what your blocks are, where  you are stuck, and you can do something about it!  
  • Find deep love for those around you that is based on truth and authenticity.  
  • Learn how to quickly move through blocks and stuck patterns that might have haunted you your whole life.  
  • Understand how to create ceremonial space that can help move deep trauma. Those deep experiences in your life that continue to come back and act as a saboteur to living your best life.   
  • Learn how to take an unprecedented level of responsibility for your life.  
  • How to learn to listen to and speak with nature and Spirit so they become constant and immediate guides on your path.   
  • See where you are inauthentic and living outside of your core purpose and passion.  

 If  you are ready to say yes to your life, then let’s work together.    Click the link and schedule a call to see if we are the right fit for  each other.  

 
 

Benefits of Working Together

  • Learn how to use your connection to nature to answer your toughest questions
  • Find deeper meaning in your relationships
  • Understand how old patterns and beliefs can be turned into powerful strengths to be used as allies in your life
  • Re-imagine how your shadows are actually what gives your life texture and beauty
  • Deepen your connection to your emotions and learn to turn your emotions into powerful life generating forces that can shine like a star
  • Learn to differentiate between what your cultural patterns of belief are and what your own unique purpose and passion are
  • Change the way you look at your relationships and break through your own limitations in how you relate to others, yourself and nature
  • Become an expert at understanding the power and limits of the current world views that keep us stuck in fear
  • Learn how to generate a more powerful and complete world view that lets you look at the world with love and hope

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