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Wilderness Quest - Information

Dates:   September 11- 21, 2025

Vision Quest

A return to something essential.

Most people I meet on the trail toward vision aren’t looking for another experience—they’re looking for something they can’t quite name. A deeper clarity. A reset. A connection that feels real and enduring. They often describe it like this:


“I just know something’s not working anymore.”


They’re not broken. You’re not broken. But something inside is restless. Something is watching the old ways of doing things crack around the edges. The outer world hums along—emails, obligations, the same old rhythms—but something inside wants out. Or maybe… wants in.


That’s where the Vision Quest comes in.

It’s not a fix.

It’s a doorway.



What happens on a vision quest?


It’s simple, really.


You go out alone into nature, fast from food for four days and nights, and listen. You walk away from the noise—not just phones or screens, but the noise of all the roles, expectations, identities you’ve carried for years. And in that stillness, something ancient begins to stir.


It might speak to you through dreams. Or a raven’s cry at dawn. Or the way your own heart settles on the third day when there’s nothing left to do but be.


This is a ceremony. It has shape and depth, roots that stretch across cultures and millennia. It’s part of what humans have always done when we’re ready to move from one season of life into another.


You don’t have to be in crisis to quest.

But you might be at a threshold.

And that matters.



What’s on the other side?


Most people come back changed. Not in the dramatic, everything-is-fixed kind of way, but in a quieter, sturdier way. Like their feet land more fully when they walk. Like they know what’s theirs to carry—and what never was.


You might return with a vision

Or a question

Or a memory that becomes your north star

What you don’t come back with is someone else’s story



Is this a rite of passage?


Yes. Though that term gets thrown around a lot these days.

This is a threshold-crossing—an initiation of your choosing. And like all real rites of passage, it asks something of you. Not performance, but presence. Not effort, but devotion.


It’s not about who you’re supposed to become

It’s about remembering who’s been waiting inside you all along



You won’t do this alone.


Before you go out, we’ll spend time preparing—clarifying what calls you, tending to the practical and spiritual groundwork. You’ll have guidance, stories, and structure. When you return, we’ll sit together and make meaning of it all. What happened out there matters. What happens next matters more.


Some things to consider…


  • You don’t need to be sure. Uncertainty is welcome here.

  • You don’t need to be tough. Tenderness may take you farther.

  • You don’t need to be “ready.” You just need to be willing.



Ready to talk?


If something stirred as you read this, let’s talk. No pressure, no commitments—just a conversation to see if this is the right next step for where you are.


There’s no formula to this. 


Just rhythm, honesty, and the kind of courage that doesn’t need to shout.


You’ll know.

Schedule a call with Mark

About Your Guides

About Mark

About Meghan

About Meghan

Mark Tollefson has been teaching nature-based connection and facilitating  transformation for 30 years. Born in the wilds of northern Canada and  from a young age mentored by people intimately connected to their  lineage and nature-based roots he brings rich life experience and wisdom  to his work.

Mark has been a survival skills instructo

Mark Tollefson has been teaching nature-based connection and facilitating  transformation for 30 years. Born in the wilds of northern Canada and  from a young age mentored by people intimately connected to their  lineage and nature-based roots he brings rich life experience and wisdom  to his work.

Mark has been a survival skills instructor at Tom Brown Jr.’s Tracker  School, the executive director of Wilderness Youth Project and the  Center for Urban Agriculture at Fairview Gardens in Santa Barbara. He  has owned a pub and restaurant, worked as a roughneck in the oil fields,  helped open an international high school in New Zealand, and founded  his own non-profit working to promote sustainable farming with the Maya  of southern Belize.

He has participated in and started many men’s groups and has sat in circle with men for many years.

He has guided hundreds of people through rites of passage into  holistic living and thinking, helping those he works with to step into a  new paradigm of being that is based on Thriving Life, connected to our  true purpose for being alive at this time.

Mark works one-on-one and in groups with people who wish to live from  their essence and uncover the blocks that keep them from living a  Thriving Life. His  process of using myth and story-telling helps  create a map unique to each person that will uncover true vision and  purpose.

Mark has many passions including playing music, poetry, carpentry,  and cooking delicious food. He is the father of two amazing children and  lives in Santa Barbara, California.

About Meghan

About Meghan

About Meghan

Meghan Maiya is a seer, a listener, and ceremonialist rooted in Earth-based ceremonial practices.  Over the years, with the support of amazing teachers, mentors, sacred ceremonies and time, she has learned to develop and use these gifts to support and uplift others. 

Meghan journeys with Spirit, Soul, Earth and Ancestors to help people und

Meghan Maiya is a seer, a listener, and ceremonialist rooted in Earth-based ceremonial practices.  Over the years, with the support of amazing teachers, mentors, sacred ceremonies and time, she has learned to develop and use these gifts to support and uplift others. 

Meghan journeys with Spirit, Soul, Earth and Ancestors to help people understand the gift and beauty of who they are. Seeing life from a Soul perspective can help us all to navigate better right here, right now. With The Gift of SoulSight, Meghan helps provide fresh ways for people to view life by showing how we've been in sacred training all along. It is an empowered perspective.  The journey is always beautiful. Wherever you are on your journey, Meghan will meet you there.  She humbly works with teachers, guides, elders, and anyone who is in need of being lovingly witnessed.

Recently, Meghan has been catching songs and working with song medicine. It is a beautiful way to stay present with emotions and energies and not get stuck in stories, old beliefs and patterns.  Working with the medicine of song is a powerful way to pray & transform!

Meghan’s professional work has been diverse. She formerly worked as the Director of Development, Research and Special Projects for a production company doing biographical and historical research for new stage productions & films. She also spent 3 years assisting and running the office for the former 19th Prime Minister of Canada, The Right Honourable Kim Campbell.  Before that, Meghan worked in the Department of Family Medicine and Public Health at the University of California, San Diego as a Senior Program Evaluation Specialist and Project Manager. She coordinated multiple research projects in the fields of Integrative Medicine and Behavioral Health (PubMed Publications).  

Additionally, Meghan spent thirteen years as a psychology professor teaching a range of courses at San Diego State University,  local community colleges and Optimum Health Institute of San Diego.

She is a proud mother of two amazing adults, Jordan & Emma.

Vision Quest

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    Vision Quest Poetry

    • Have You Ever Tried To Enter The Long Black Branches?
    • A poem by Mary Oliver, read by Mark Tollefson.

    Sometimes a poem is the best way to express an idea. We can try by talking or reading things, but poetry has a unique way of being able to say things that otherwise might be unable to be communicated. I've never come across a poem that more perfectly expresses why and what a Vision Quest is. Please listen and share!!

    Poet Info


    Mary Oliver
    US (1935 - 2019)

     

    -- from West Wind: Poems and Prose Poems, by Mary Oliver

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